BDSM is an erotic fetish that includes bondage, sadism and masochism among other methods in order to reach orgasm. It is enjoyed by many couples worldwide and it has slowly created a community that is united by the passion for kinky, bold sex. You can be a part of this international club by experimenting with it yourself and finding out the exact practices that excite you the most.
You may read all the books and watch all the movies related to BDSM, but if you don’t try it at least once you will never get to know exactly how it feels. Many people who have initially rejected this fetish have discovered a new gateway to sexual experiences once they have tried it. This does not mean that you will surely enjoy it from the start, but you might be missing out on something spectacular if you never give it a chance.
If you are pondering about introducing BDSM to your relationship, talk about it with your partner at first. Do not try to tie them up to the bed and whip them just to see how bondage and masochism feel like. This mistake might instantly turn your current status to single. However, if you are single, you have an extra reason to practice this fetish. Contact someone who is BDSM-experienced and ask them to slowly initiate you in this sexual technique.
BDSM has been proven to help couples overcome their relationship problems. If you and your partner are dealing with issues like insecurity, lack of trust or simply bad communication, you can find a solution in sexual experimentation. By practicing BDSM you increase the level of intimacy and confidence in your relationship. Also, this fetish will also help you achieve a better dialogue and a deeper understanding of the other person’s flaws and imperfections.